Kural 911 | The Perils of False Affections

 


## The Perils of False Affections


### திருக்குறள் 92: வரைவின்மகளிர் (பொருட்பால்)


**குறள் (Verse in Tamil):**


அன்பின் விழையார் பொருள்விழையு மாய்தொடியா  

ரின்சொ லிழுக்குத் தரும் (911)


**Transliteration:**


Anbin vizhaiyaar porul vizhaiyum aay thodiyaar  

Insol izhukku tharum


### பதப்பிரிப்பு (Word by Word Meaning):


- **அன்பின் விழையார்** - Anbin vizhaiyaar - Those who do not seek love

- **பொருள் விழையும்** - Porul vizhaiyum - Seek wealth

- **ஆய் தொடியார்** - Aay thodiyaar - Beautifully bangled women

- **இன் சொல்** - In sol - Sweet words

- **இழுக்குத் தரும்** - Izhukku tharum - Lead to disgrace


### குறள் உரை (Verse Translation and Detailed Explanation):


Those who do not seek love but desire wealth, the sweet words of such beautifully adorned women will bring disgrace.


This verse highlights the deceitful nature of individuals who feign affection for material gains. Valluvar warns that the sweet words of such people, particularly women adorned with bangles (symbolizing beauty and charm), can lead a man to disgrace. Their intentions are not rooted in genuine love but in the desire for wealth, and associating with them will ultimately cause harm.


### உதாரணம் (Example/Analogy):


Consider a man who is praised and flattered by a seemingly affectionate partner. Over time, he realizes that her affections are not genuine but driven by a desire for his wealth. This revelation not only causes emotional distress but also tarnishes his reputation among peers and society, leading to his disgrace.


### முக்கிய விடயங்கள் (Highlights):


- 💔 Fake affection driven by materialistic desires

- 🎭 Deceptive nature of sweet words

- ⚠️ Consequences of associating with insincere individuals

- 📉 Potential for disgrace and harm


### Present-Day Inference:


In modern times, the essence of this verse is profoundly relevant. With the rise of social media and superficial relationships, many people encounter situations where affection is shown not out of genuine love but for personal gains. It is crucial to discern the true intentions behind such relationships to avoid emotional and reputational harm. Cultivating genuine connections based on mutual respect and love, rather than materialistic desires, is the key to a fulfilling and dignified life.

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